People often seem to equate these two things, but there's no reason to. Often, being by myself after having to be among a large group of people for a long time isn't lonely at all. It's just peaceful. On the other hand, being among a large group of people who don't understand you, don't take the time to try to do so, and who are all telling you that you're "too quiet" can feel very lonely.

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